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Monday, June 30, 2008

Sparkled

Well that was a fun weekend, big shame about the numbers of people but it meant that my resolution to spend quality time with a few groups instead of my previous scattergun effort was easier. Quite a good flight over, I liked my outfit, I liked my makeup, think my hair needs changing tho. No probs, train to Basel, flight to Manc, big mistake getting to basel airport too early - dullllsville. At the gate I offered my passport for the last minute check, whereupon he started shouting my name down the line, 'errr thats me' I said, oh his little face 'oh' he managed 'you must understand, this is difficult for me' he managed eventually before looking shamefaced and waving me through. 'It's not that easy for me either chum!'

Sparkle itself passed me by a bit, I didn't see anything in the park, I was mostly spent socialising, although I had to take a morning off to go buy a rubber suit (long story but you wont be seeing pics of that!) in general, there were, hmmm theres no way to say it without sounding judemental, but there were more inappropriate outfits on show, there was a lot of sniggering from members of the public, a lot of bollocks on show,a lot of stupidly short skirts. Having dinner in Velvet on Friday, the general feeling around the table was that we were embarassed. Sigh. I know that makes me sound like a bitch but it makes me unhappy because I could see the great british public sniggering at them, and by extension, at me. A friends wife said she was shopping in the Arndale centre and some girls were sniggering at two trannies on the escalator, then took pictures of them to show their friends so they could have a good laugh too.

Does that reflect badly on the girls or the trannies?

Oh well, I'm still glad I went, just not as glad as I wanted to be.

6 Comments:

Blogger Jane said...

Girls sniggering at Trannies reflects badly on the girls immaturity and stupidity.

Dressing in whippet skirts reflects badly on the wearer no matter what their chromosomes are.

I think Sparkle may have been hit by the general economic down turn, that's why we didn't go, too costly with the petrol, hotels, meals etc. We've been 3 times for Becky twice for me so can't really justify it especially as we've cancelled going to cheaper events as well.

8:57 PM  
Blogger Gillian said...

Whippet skirts? an inch away from the 'hare'? Greyhound skirt is what I say. It felt more that economic Jane, a general malaise in trannyville, shame not to see y'all there - at Sparkle I mean, not the general malaise.

9:03 PM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

From afar, and having never Sparkled, hard to comment. Aside from the evidence on Flickr etc.

Which possibly is misrepresentative, but does indicate a less than flattering view of our 'community'.

4:49 AM  
Blogger sophie h said...

I thought you looked great Gillian. Just a shame you were in a rush and I only had a chance to say Hi and no more.
When Becky told me and Jane wernt going I nearly cancelled, but I'm glad I didnt as I wouldnt have met some fab people.

Being short of stature I found some of the, how can I put it, less feminine trannies more than a little intimidating. (Im sure they were nice people really and who am I to pass judgement).
The thing is, I do what I do to the best of my ability, and it just felt like some people werent really trying. After all, who are the general public going to remember and colour their view of us all, the tranny who tries to blend or the one who stands out.
Having said that Sparkle is supposed to be for the whole wide variety of t-persons and I think most if not all were represented.
Sorry i'm rambling so i better stop now :o)

9:55 PM  
Blogger Gillian said...

Hey Sophie, you were definitely not one of the trannies I had in mine, don't think that for a second. Shorts good, it's more feminine I'd like a few inches off the top, and the waist and the chest and a few more on the hips.

For me there are definitely points for effort, and effort was sadly lacking, whether it was not practicing makeup, looking what girls wear, or FFS just learning how to walk in heels, just wear them around the house and keep your knees together!!!

Yes I agree, Sparkle is intended for the whole spectrum and it's not my place to criticize, but sod it I'm doing it anyway! Thanks for the ramble.

5:39 AM  
Blogger Louise Gallacher said...

glad it was not me they were taking pic's of...
sorry I missed you...

but i agree with your sentiments and feedback ref.. nuts... I was marshalling in the park on saturday afternoon and I nearly went over to a person to ask them to act with some dignity...
but thats what you get some of us pushing the boundaries to near indecency...

huggs............

3:06 PM  

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